Values
A while ago I met a healer at a course in Melbourne who said that she could help me figure out what my values were. After a bit of to and fro and answering some questions (which I have to admit were quite different to what I had expected to be asked), she boiled down my three values to:
- Spirituality
- Fitness/Self improvement
- Socialising
I think that is a very good summary of my top 3 values at this point in time. I do find that in my conversations with people now I seem to get more of an "umph" or more passionate when I talk about the first two of the values. It's strange but somehow now I'm finding it difficult to relate to people on a more "social" front - case in point is heading to a friend's bday the other day where I only really knew two of the people. It was difficult for me to chat to the others but when I somehow struck up a conversation with one girl, it turns out she is studying remedial massage so we just hit it off! Funny how the law of attraction works isn't it :P
So what does it mean now that I know what these values are? Essentially all of my decisions should come back to these three - so if a particular route would benefit me in any of these areas, then chances are it's the right decision. If not, then it's probably not the right one. Obviously listening to your intuition is also very important, but it's good to know what my focus is at this point in time.
Do you know what your values are?